Devistating Facts

  • 1 in 3 women experience abuse in their lifetime. However, Native American women are abused 4 times the national average, and they are 10 times more likely to be murdered.
  • Victims of intimate partner violence lose a total of 8 million days of paid work each year.
  • Between 21-60% of victims of abuse lose their jobs due to reasons stemming from the abuse. 73% of them are harassed at work.
  • The cost of intimate partner violence exceeds $8.3 billion per year. Medical costs, physical and mental, make up for 70% of the total.
  • Abuse and Domestic Violence are the least talked about, addressed, and provided with resources pandemic in the Christian church today.


Can We Talk?

  • Do you find yourself struggling to focus on work because you are constantly worrying about what mood your husband will be in when he comes home?
  • Are you frustrated and frightened because no matter what you do, you still wake up in an abusive relationship, even though you pray, go to church, and try to follow Jesus?
  • Would you like to know how to move to the healed side of your abuse and live safe, secure and loved?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you have come to the right place. I know first-hand the devastation abuse and domestic violence bring to your heart, spirit, mind, and life. I spent twenty years in abusive relationships trying to figure out how to fix myself and the circumstances, even though I was a Christian.

Once I realized the truth about God’s love for myself, I discovered how I was deceived and how I could be healed through God’s grace. My healing has prepared me to help Christian women understand God’s truth about love and marriage, which does not include abuse. I am mindful and realistic of the process of healing from abuse through God’s transforming grace.

If you are a victim of abuse or domestic violence, you are not alone. In fact, you could be one step away from changing your future.I invite you to discover God’s truth and real-life principals to stregthen you on your journey to the healed side of abuse. You can find encouragement, support, and resources on my website and blog. Live in the truth of God’s love on the healed side of domestic violence and you will live, safe, secure, and loved. Contact me below for your next speaking event, workshop, or rejuvenating get away!


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